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My Nature Journal
A Personal Nature Guide for Young People
Adrienne Olmstead
For kids ages 8-14. It is packed with suggestions for nature
activities which encourage observation and note-taking skills.
Wild Days
Creating Discovery Journals
by Karen Skidmore Rackliffe
To notice the painting on a flower, the shape of a cloud, the
song of a thrush and the cool smoothness of the bark on a birch
tree, these are the memories captured in a nature journal.
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Falling Through the Cracks
Dateline: 2/21/03
By Ann Zeise
A mother wrote to me....
I have three children and all three of them are doing poorly
in school this year. My oldest daughter, who is very smart, is
not fairing well. I had a meeting with five of her teachers the
other day and left upset by what they said. My daughter has always
been very quick to pick up on things, but this year she is doing
just awful. I feel as if the school system (public) is letting
my kids down.
My middle daughter has been having trouble since 1st grade.
I have been on the school to do testing on her, however they
keep saying the are going to do it but haven't. I had a meeting
with the principal, counselor, and child psychologist yesterday
about her and my son, who is in 1st grade and doing very poorly,
I might add. Needless to say I left crying because they told
me that they would test my daughter within 60 days. That's at
the end of the year, so does this mean that they will put her
in 5th grade?
As far as my son goes, they told me that there was "a
significant deficit in his numbers" and that he needed to
be tested for a learning disability as well, but they cannot
get to him until next year! They said they will go ahead and
pass him, but he will have to be in a modified program until
they can get the testing done.
I left the school in tears, they made it sound as if I don't
help my children at home! I am always at home in the evening
with them and I am at home on the weekends with them. Often we
are up until 10 to 11 o'clock at night doing homework. I help
my children every night!
I am seriously thinking about homeschooling, but I am not
sure where to start. It seems to me that the system is failing
my children. I would like your thoughts and opinions and maybe
some advice.
Thank You Very Much.
Dear Mom,
Sounds like your kids are "falling through the cracks."
Not demanding enough to get immediate attention, but not good
enough to be ignored. You've tried to work through the system,
and it is failing you. You are doing all the work of homeschooling,
but doing it at night when everyone is tired and frazzled.
Often the methods used in public schools to suit groups of
28-32 kids just won't work for some kids. Your kids may just
not learn well in large group settings. Often when kids are brought
home, parents will notice a renewed interest in life and learning
in their kids within a few weeks. That "learning disability"
turns out to have been a "schooling disability!"
For school-wounded families, I often recommend that they start
out using the Charlotte
Mason method, revised to accommodate family interests. The
Charlotte Mason method recommends that you spend part of each
day outside observing in a natural setting. Spring is such a
nice time to do this in most parts of the country, or bundle
up and learn to love the rain or snow! Have the kids collaborate
on a journal of what they've noticed each trip and what questions
have come up. let nature help heal the insecurities they are
feeling right now from the labels the school has put on them.
While you are out walking, compare winter
to being in school and spring to "getting sprung."
Talk about what things the children would like to learn about
or learn to do. Take notes. Brainstorm with your husband about
what you can afford to do to help your children's dreams come
true. The first thing everyone needs to learn is that from now
on YOU are in control of your own learning experiences. This
is rather frightening at first. Self esteem needs to be built
up, in you as well as your children. Your project, for now, is
to bone up about homeschooling. Lots to read on my site!
Take about a month for your kids to find their first self-directed
learning project. For the littlest one, it may be just to learn
to tie his shoes or learn to whistle or blow bubble gum. That's
OK. Your middle child may just want to learn how to train the
dog to do new tricks. Your eldest may want to build a huge model
city or master a computer game. The point is to mentor them,
to guide them to chose more and more challenging projects.
"But how will they learn the basics?" You ask.
Each and every project will involved some reading and math,
and often a science and one of the social sciences as well. They
will learn cooperation and problem solving and a whole lot of
higher order thinking skills that they don't have time to teach
in public school.
Have fun with this! Fit learning into your family lifestyle.
If you are "artsy craftsy," then build your studies
around arts. If you are athletic, build it around physical fitness.
If you'd all rather be traveling, fine! If you'd rather be mostly
at home and doing things in your community, then do things with
your church or recreation department or scout or 4H group. You
have the internet, so let the kids that enjoy the computer use
it for some of their learning.
Schools are trying to be more like homeschools! No kidding!
Ever heard of "magnet schools?" These are schools all
focusing on one area of study, say fine arts or computer science.
Some are having groups of children ages 5-8 stay with one teacher
until 4th grade in a room that is designed to look like a home
living room and kitchen!
You CAN do this! I don't know why under-30 teachers with no
kids of their own think that with one year of education school
and a year or two in the classroom suddenly think they really
understand children and families!
Do look through the links that apply to you on the Beginning
to Homeschool Directory.
In most states you may begin homeschooling whenever you want.
Do check your state's legal
requirements.
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- Books To Help You Get Started Homeschooling
A Charlotte Mason Companion : Personal Reflections
on the Gentle Art of Learning
by Karen Andreola
A thorough chapter-by-chapter overview of the inspiring teaching
principles of Christian educator Charlotte Mason, this book reveals
the practical day by day method of how to teach "the Charlotte
Mason way".
- Homeschooling the Child with ADD (or Other
Special Needs): Your Complete Guide to Successfully Homeschooling
the Child with Learning Differences
by Lenore Colacion Hayes
- More and more parents are realizing that homeschooling is
a great option for children with ADD, ADHD, and other special
needs. Homeschooling parents can tailor the learning experience
to precisely fit their child's requirements, a critical necessity
in the development of special-needs children.
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- The
Ultimate Book of Homeschooling Ideas: 500+ Fun and Creative Learning
Activities for Kids Ages 3-12
by Linda Dobson
- Paperback - November 2002
- Look no longer! Inside this innovative helper, you'll find
kid-tested and parent-approved techniques for learning math,
science, writing, history, manners, and more that you can easily
adapt to your family's homeschooling needs.
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