Are We Done Yet?
Dateline: 4/7/05
By Ann Zeise
For homeschool families who choose not to go
through an organized program or curriculum, coming to the point
of saying, "Yes, we're done and we're going to graduate
our teen from high school," is not an easy task.
By 17 or 18, some of our teens have already been taking
college classes for years. Others are already established
in careers and have good
jobs. Some may have children of their own. While some just
seem to be learning all the time, and it seems a shame to call
attention to the "end of high school." Others seem
to be "late bloomers," and just don't seem to have
mastered all they "should."
Does any parent think their 18 year old is ready to face the
challenges of adult life? I don't think so! But this shouldn't
stop you from celebrating this milestone in the life cycle. Who
is ever "done" with growing, maturing, learning? No
one.
So, how do you know your teen is "done?" Some big
clues might be...
Some rely on tests to reassure them that their teens have
learned enough; such tests as the GED,
a state high school equivalency test, or the college
entrance tests, the SAT or the ACT. Unschoolers may eschew
the tests, because they just know in their hearts that their
teen is just ready to celebrate this life milestone, from boy
to man or girl to woman.
Few states have "graduation requirements." Educational
institutions have "graduation requirements." While
states do have "content
standards," and some are starting to have special graduation
tests, these requirements are for those attending public schools,
and not private or home schools, which may set their own standards
if they are set up legally as private schools. The only people
we have to please are ourselves, a potential
employer in the field of our choosing, and college admissions
officers, again, in the colleges
of our choice.
Some like to mark this occasion with a small family party.
Other parents and older teens throw a prom.
Some support groups hold a graduation ceremony during their spring
or summer homeschool conference or convention. Here are some
links to sites describing a wide variety of commencement
ceremonies.
Another step in this finishing process is to complete a portfolio and/or transcript
for your teen. They may need this many years from now to get
a job or career advancement, so you need to figure out how to
make and safely store additional copies. Do not count on these
things surviving moves, or acts of nature. Do not count on the
distance learning program still being in business. I occasionally
hear from former unschooled kids desperate for a transcript to
show an employer, leaving parents and their 30-something child
scrambling to try to recall what was accomplished during their
teen years.
Is a physical diploma necessary?
Not really. It is something nice to put on the wall or in a scrapbook.
It is a symbol, though, of accomplishment, and therefore as important
to a teen as a 2-wheel bike is to a 6 year old who has outgrown
his tricycle. It is also a symbol of commencement: the commencement
of adult life. We all know of adults who don't have a high school
diploma who forever wish they had one, and often return to complete
high school much later in life. So order
or make a diploma for your teen, and
have a little ceremony in which you award it.
What about the teen "tough cases," you may ask?
What about the teen who was booted out of his public school and
seems to have done "nothing" since? What about the
teen mother who has been so busy taking care of her baby, holding
a down a dead-end job, that it seems little "school work"
has been done? Life experiences can count. If you are having
a hard time figuring out if a transcript can be drawn up for
such a teen, do contact Wes Beach of Beach
High and see if he can help. He's very good at helping a
teen look at their lives and translating what they've done in
terms an employer or college admissions officer can understand.
In another article, I'm going to address the "empty nest
syndrome" of former homeschool moms and dads once their
last child has left the home. It is hard to "give up"
the homeschool community, and many continue to contribute. Me,
I have started more "homeschooling" myself! It is great
fun for me to pour over my websites, and figure out new tricks.
I spend hours with my photography now, going on "field trips"
and putting on photography shows with my local camera club. Again,
wait for this article later on.
What's Next?
Course Numbers and Transcript Details
Important pieces that should always be included when preparing
a transcript for a college. By Shirley Minster.
GED For Homeschoolers?
Does your teen really need a GED? Information both for teens
and parents who need the GED to homeschool legally.
Graduation From Homeschool
From unschoolers' commencements to formal cap and gown ceremonies,
homeschool families mark this transition in unique and creative
ways.
Homeschool Diploma Photoshop Template
Diploma with gold lettering and no border. Diploma.ttf font.
Edit in Photoshop to customize for your graduate. Print on certificate
paper.
Homeschoolers At Work
Young homeschoolers working. Choosing a career. Homeschoolers
in the work force - and succeeding!
Portfolios
Creating portfolios for personal use, jobs or for getting into
college.
Proms for Homeschoolers
Several states are having state-wide proms for homeschoolers
this year. Here are their announcements.
SAT and Other College
Tests
Homeschoolers can get pre-college test information at these sites.
Transcripts
Help interpreting your high school-level work to make into transcripts
for college applications.
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