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Socialization: The "S" Word

Page 2: Links about Socialization and Homeschoolers (Back to Page 1)

What is socialization? Studies showing the comparison of the social adjustment of homeschoolers vs. school children. Articles about the social skills of homeschooled children, and the effect on their development by being around adults a lot.

But What About The Prom?
You think I'm making too big a deal about the prom question? I don't think so. By Jackie Orsi. The Link.

Children educated at home don't become social misfits
A detailed study at the University of Michigan of 53 adults who were taught at home by their parents is one of the first to examine the long-term effects of homeschooling.

Children's Peer Relationships
Critical are the skills needed to initiate and maintain social relationships and to resolve social conflicts, including communication, compromise, and tact.

Christine Jones' Rant
Is being a human resource, to be molded and shaped for government use and for being on the assembly line, your definition of socialization? Yahoo membership required.

Common Objections To Homeschooling
Answered by John Holt. A good resource for those facing too many objections to their decision to homeschool.

The Development of Social Competence in Children
Researchers have tried to pinpoint the origins of positive social adjustment in relation to genetic, familial, educational, and other factors. Sherri Oden.

Elephants Teach Socializaton
Someone suggested that if the behavior of these "juvenile delinquent pachyderms" was in part due to the lack of a good role model, then maybe providing them with a good role model would help to reverse the trend. By Deborah Kloeppel.

Fitting In
How do my children make neighborhood friends? By Laura Weldon, HEM M/A 07

Freedom to Learn Who You Are: Homeschooling and Socialization
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s a graduate of twelve years of homeschooling who now attends college and lives on campus, I have found that my homeschool background is largely an advantage. By Rebecca Auerbach.

Future Conversation
Two women meet at a playground, where their children are swinging and playing ball. The women are sitting on a bench watching. Eventually, they begin to talk. By Tammy Drennan

A Game of Socialization
Diana Waring delightfully notes how her childrens' socialization "score" improves through the years.

Homeschooling and the Myth of Socialization
Manfred B. Zysk. Go to your local public school, walk down the hallways and see what behaviors you would want your child to emulate.

Homeschooling and the Redefinition of Citizenship
A. Bruce Arai, Wilfrid Laurier University. This paper frames these debates within the broader issues of citizenship and citizenship education.

Home Schooling and Socialization of Children
By Nola Kortner Aiex, in ERIC. The home-schooled youngster does as well in measures of interpersonal skills and communication skills as the conventionally schooled child.

Homeschooling Is Best
AN A to Z ARTICLE
Rebuttal from your guide to Tracy Pope who wrote "Classroom is Best" in the "Bay Area Parent."

How to Answer the Socialization Question Once and for All
Socialization is actually defined as the process by which the norms and standards of our society are passed from one generation to the next. By Marsha Ransom.

In Defense of Protectiveness
One of the most frequent accusations directed at homeschooling parents is that we are over-protective, trying to shield our children from the realities of life. By Christina Hendrick Croft, HEM N/D01.

Living Joyfully With Children
AN A to Z ARTICLE
Win and Bill Sweet: maximize freedom and success, minimize fear and failure. Act on this 4 times a day and you'll succeed.

Marvin Minsky Comment on Schooling
"Many of our foremost achievers developed under conditions that are not much like those of present-day mass education."

McGruff Advice for Staying Safe
When some ask about "Socialization" they are sometimes concerned about whether our kids will be "street wise." Here are some lessons your child should learn.

Miles O'Neal's Homeschool FAQs
Various studies show that the socialization myth is just that - a myth.

No School Today?
When Tammy Enz realized her son was struggling to explain why he wasn't in school, she enlisted the help of other homeschoolers to find a way to help him answer the question. - by Tammy Enz - HEM N/D 05

No Thank You, We Don't Believe in Socialization!
Imagine the following scenes: Your Employer is auditing the Inter-Office Email system and comes across a personal note between you and a coworker. You are required to stand at the podium in the next sales meeting to read it aloud to your coworkers. By Lisa Russell.

The Pathetic Award
Should kids get awards for their behavior? Sherry Kinser examines the issue from both sides. By Sherry Kinser, HEM M/J 07

Paula's Archives - Socialization
A number of posts about the socialization of homeschooled children and why these parents prefer the socialization skills learn through the home.

Questioning Socialization
I have found that asking someone who is concerned about "socialization" just what *they* mean by "socialization" can be a really interesting and revealing experience. Besides, often the person will get so involved in explaining their particular concerns they end up answering their own questions, letting you off the hook. By Sandy Keane

The Real World
Besides hearing the socialization question, another question heard frequently is whether your children will be ready for The Real World. By Manfred Smith.

Rural Home Schooling and Place-Based Education
Place-based educators use local particulars to teach universal concepts, engage students in community life, and involve people and resources unique to the home community. By Rebecca Jaycox.

Six-Lesson Schoolteacher
By John Taylor Gatto, New York State Teacher of the Year, 1991. If you pay for these "socialization" lessons, you should know what is taught.

The "S" Word
Cafi Cohen found that after they started homeschooling, her teens had many more friends because they had more time to spend making and keeping friends.

The "S" Word
Sylvia Sims and her family rushed through the week, spent Saturdays on the soccer field and Sundays were saved for church and of course the ever mythical fairy, Quality Time.

Sociability of Students in a Home-based Charter School
AN A to Z ARTICLE
The results of Craig Butz's study indicate that students who are educated in the home-based charter school are not adversely affected in their socialization ability.

Social Development and the Homeschooled Child
This article is written to challenge the assumptions about socialization but also to more adequately inform others about what really takes place in the typical homeschool. Scroll down a ways. By Dr. Scott Turansky.

Social Skills and Homeschooling: Myths and Facts
"The idea that children need to be around many other youngsters in order to be 'socialized,'" Dr. Moore writes, is perhaps the most dangerous and extravagant myth in education and child rearing today."

Socialization: A Great Reason to Keep Your Child Out of School
Larry Edward Shyers obtained a Ph.D. degree at the University of Florida in part by conducting research reported in his thesis, Comparison of Social Adjustment Between Home and Traditionally Schooled Students.

Socialization and Home Schooling
Socialization is what happens in society. When we play, talk, work and live with other people, people of all ages, sorts and conditions, we are socialized by the experience. Very little of this happens in the warehouse schools. By Nels Tomlinson.

Socialization Issues
Fred Worth pretty much covers all the objections in a delightfully insightful manner.

"Socialization" Stories
AAARRRRGGGHHHH~ I don't know about any of you but I sure wish the opponents of homeschooling could come up with a new line.

Teens, homeschooling, and the lonely crowd
But to me, one of the most interesting things about homeschooling is that it turns the anti-homeschooling argument on its head, and underlines the ways in which contemporary schooling itself is deeply isolating. By Eve Tushnet.

That Dreaded "S" Word
It is so difficult to counter the well meaning, but often not well thought-out question from friends or family when we know they are genuinely concerned, but not necessarily seeing the homeschool advantage in this.

Valedictorian Who Failed Socialization
Neysa Jensen writes about her own experiences as an introvert, yet supposedly "successful" public school student.

You Were Homeschooled?
Yes, the bubbly, loud, personable (and I'd like to think fashionable) blonde before them was, in fact...taught from home. By Bailey Vincent Clark, Freelance Writer, Health Columnist, and Student for Life.

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Books To Help You With Socialization
 
The Socialization Trap
The Socialization Trap
Protecting Your Children from Age Segregation and Other Pitfalls
by Rick Boyer
The author is a homeschool father of twelve who provides the reader with rich ammunition to respond to what is now the standard objection of the world to homeschooling.
 
Homeschooling: A Path Rediscovered for Socialization, Education, and Family
Homeschooling
A Path Rediscovered for Socialization, Education, and Family
by Amy, Schechter Vahid and Frank Vahid
This book explains why homeschooling can be a great path for socializing a child and for excelling academically in a 21st century world, why homeschooling is easier than most people think, and how homeschooling can lead to the tranquil close family life many people seek.
 
But What About Socialization? Answering the Perpetual Home Schooling Question: A Review of the Literature
But What About Socialization? Answering the Perpetual Home Schooling Question: A Review of the Literature
by Susan A. McDowel
This is a highly logical question with, perhaps unfortunately, more than one correct answer.
 
The Courage to Raise Good Men
The Courage to Raise Good Men
by Olga Silverstein
If mothers trusted their abilities to nurture their sons, to help them become kinder, gentler people, the world would be a better place, Silverstein argues.
 
Protecting the Gift : Keeping Children and Teenagers Safe (And Parents Sane)
Protecting the Gift : Keeping Children and Teenagers Safe (And Parents Sane)
My son read this book first, and then handed it to me and said, "You really ought to read this, Mom." It deals with a subject--violence against children--that most of us never want to consider. But, as Gavin de Becker stresses, such situations, though rare, can occur, so all parents must deal with the facts in order to protect their children properly.
 
Elbows Off the Table, Napkin in the Lap, No Video Games During Dinner : The Modern Guide to Teaching Children Good Manners
Elbows Off the Table, Napkin in the Lap, No Video Games During Dinner : The Modern Guide to Teaching Children Good Manners
by Carol McD. Wallace
One of the foremost experts on both children and manners offers a clear, contemporary guide to what today's parents should teach their children, when to teach it, and how to do so without turning home into boot camp.
 
What to Expect at a Play Date
What to Expect at a Play Date (What to Expect Kids)
by Heidi Murkoff
Playing with another child is always fun, but it isn't always easy. Play dates provide a wonderful opportunity for small children to practice their social skills, work on their p's & q's, and learn how to be a good friend.
 
Lives Across Cultures: Cross-Cultural Human Development
Lives Across Cultures: Cross-Cultural Human Development
by Harry W. Gardiner, et al
The primary goal of this book is to bring a cross-cultural dimension to the study of human development across the lifespan. For those who seriously wish to understand other cultures to help explain these concepts to their children.
 

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