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Protecting the Gift : Keeping Children and Teenagers Safe (And Parents Sane)
Protecting the Gift : Keeping Children and Teenagers Safe (And Parents Sane)
by Gavin De Becker
Without offering a compendium of every conceivable danger, Gavin identifies warning signals and real risks that are often easy to spot once you know what to look for. Teens will appreciate this book, as will parents. My teen read this first, and then handed it to me, saying, "You should read this!"
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A Dark Side To Home Schooling?

Dateline: 10/13/03

By Ann Zeise

CBS Evening News dredged up an old murder suicide story in order to once again sell fear disguised as a news story tonight.

A Dark Side to Homeschooling was aired tonight, October 13, 2003, apparently for the sole purpose to serve some political agenda to try to require social worker visits to homeschooling families. A second part aired on the 6 o'clock CBS evening news on Tuesday night.

Talk about the CBS homeschool stories.

This is much more of a case of social workers NOT doing their jobs! This family was well known to both Arizona and North Carolina social workers! These people were already being investigated for child abuse... a SECOND time, after already having been convicted in Arizona.

This was NOT a family hidden from the normal safeguards we have in society! This is a case of the safeguards failing them. The story said something about only 3 investigative social workers in the state!

I was doing a little research on the net today. Seems like the odds are very good when a child is murdered that a parent, close relative or acqaintance will have done it. Stranger murders are really very rare in general, and rarer still for child murders.

Here are some alarming statistics about children being murdered in this country. 35% of murdered children are killed by their parents or other family member.

A reporter could take ANY segment of the population and draw a conclusion that families are very dangerous to your life! Something like 10% of all child murders are done by a parent and 25% by other family members.

No matter WHAT anyone does, it seems, nothing changes this horrible statistic. Fear sells. And this show is all about fear mongering. Anyone else see Bowling for Columbine? The conclusion of this documentary was that the only thing that could be the cause of the high murder rate in the USA was that our news shows promote fear. [Teachers Guide] Canadians have a lot of firearms, same movies, teens play same video games, yet they have issue-oriented news shows. Perhaps it is time to tell the news producers that we've had enough of all this faked fear mongering!

The amazing thing is that not more homeschool families murder their families! When they do, it is so unusual that it makes the evening news, even tonight, 2 years again after the fact. Oh, and now it turns out that the family was not properly signed up for homeschooling. They were disobeying all sorts of laws!

There were 517 murders in North Carolina in 2001, says a report of the North Carolina Department of Justice. This is actually good news, as there has been a steady decrease in murders in this state in the last decade. Of these, 252 of these victims knew their killer. 76 of them were murdered by a close relative, down from 88 the past year. One can only conclude that the state of North Carolina probably already has some pretty good safeguards in place. Only 32% killed by close relatives? That's better than the national average! Two of the 517 were homeschooled kids (well, not legal homeschoolers!)... 0.3%. Homeschoolers tend to be 1.7% of school-aged population. The rate of murders in homeschool families is therefore much lower than might be statistically expected!

I'm not going to excuse what happen in this family, or in any family where there is such terrible abuse. No family can forsee when what seems to be just "trouble" might erupt into murder and suicide. Hindsight is 100%. Others, neighbors church members, all saw this family on a regular basis, but did nothing because they probably saw no need. This seems to be rather a pattern in all such stories I read in the paper.

Any reporter will tell you that it isn't news when a dog bites a man. It is a story is when a man bites a dog! Only the unusual makes the news. It is so odd for killing to happen in a homeschool family that it is headline news when it does. Remember a few months ago when a church member opened fire in a church? Doesn't usually happen, right? Yet no one is investigating churches for how they treat their members based on an isolated incident.

If this page is accurate, it is very interesting!

Number of kids murdered at or around school in the last three years: 47.
Number of kids murdered at home: 3,000.

Odds that a school-aged youth will be murdered by parents at home versus being murdered by a peer at school: 15 to 1.

Odds that a parent will murder their teenage child vs the other way around: 6 to 1.

Number of youths murdered in school shootings since May 1, 1999: 7.
Number of kids killed in mass shootings by middle-aged adults: at least 22.

Number of students murdered at school in the last three years in the "school shootings" featured in headlines and repeated news stories and cited by President Clinton: 25.
Number who were white: 23.
Number of students murdered at school in the same period who received virtually no media or political attention: 32.
Number who were not white: 29.
Mathematical odds that this could be a coincidence: less than 1 in 100,000.

Cold, dry statistics. Still an awful lot of dead kids!

Hard Facts

Bureau of Justice Statistics Homicide trends in the U.S.
This site contains a series of charts that describe homicide patterns and trends in the United States since 1976.

Light Side of the Dark Side

Homeschool Spin: A Look at the Dark Side
These children are being forced to read and learn. Their home is cluttered with books and so-called educational objects. Okay, that's fine, but where are the video games that children need to develop good fine motor and social skills? The images here will scare you.

Other Reactions to The CBS Show

HEM News & Commentary
Ann Fisher: By now you've had a chance to read or view CBS's shameful tactic of exploiting a few horrific tragedies in order to smear homeschooling as a hotbed of child abuse. I won't dignify the CBS report by including quotations here, but I would share my thoughts about ways homeschoolers might defend against this attack.

Follow Up Contacts

CBS Evening News: evening@cbsnews.com

CBS News web feedback form

Viewer comment lines: (212) 975-3247 or (212) 975-4321

"Eye On America" Story Date: October 13, 2003

Vince Gonzales, reporter gvg@cbsnews.com

Barbara Pierce, producer bp1@cbsnews.com

Their office phone in LA: (323) 575-2202

ADDRESS:

CBS Evening News with Dan Rather

524 West 57th St.

New York, NY 10019

CBS' Comment Line is (212) 975-3247

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Write to us: Consumer Information Center
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Post Cereal
Kraft Foods
1-800-323-0768 Monday through Friday between the hours of 9am - 9pm EST.
Or you can write to us at: Kraft Foods Inc.
Consumer Resource and Information Center
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Claritin - Schering-Plough
Schering-Plough Corporation
World Headquarters
2000 Galloping Hill Road
Kenilworth, NJ 07033-0530
Telephone: (908) 298-4000
"We pulled our advertising spots from the second portion of the news story and those did not run on the evening of October 14th."

Capital One
Capital One
Attn: Customer Relations
PO Box 85015
Richmond, VA 23285-5015
Phone: 1-800-955-7070
1-804-747-7200

GM Mr Goodwrench
Contact form here.

Osteo Bi-Flex - Rexall
Mailing Address:
Unicity International
748 North 1340 West
Orem, Utah 84057
Main Phone (U.S. Headquarters):
(801) 226-2600

Vicks VapoRub
No other contact information found

Poligrip GlaxoSmithKline
5 Moore Drive
P.O. Box 13398
Research Triangle Park
NC 27709
Phone: 1-888-825-5249

Hyundai Sonata
Via E-mail (use both): projjk@hyundai-motor.com ;
swpark@hyundai-motor.com
1-800-826-CARS

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Living Joyfully With Children
by Sweet, Win & Bill
I met these Milpitas authors at the Home=Education Conference. A heartfelt guidebook on having a joyful and fulfilling life with your children. 1997 Paperback
 


The Unschooling Handbook : How to Use the Whole World As Your Child's Classroom

by Mary Griffith
Unschooling, a homeschooling method based on the belief that kids learn best when allowed to pursue their natural curiosities and interests, is practiced by 10 to 15 percent of the estimated 1.5 million homeschoolers in the United States.

The Courage to Raise Good Men
The Courage to Raise Good Men
by Olga Silverstein
If mothers trusted their abilities to nurture their sons, to help them become kinder, gentler people, the world would be a better place, Silverstein argues.

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